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stephen covey, book of 1st things 1st, page 185

for the most part, ppl are caught up in a rescue fantasy.

the problem is "out there" 
& somebody out there is going to come along & solve it.

kita selalu tertipu, in a fantasy, like someone out there ataupun sape2 la, kan datang selamatkan,do something 4 us  sooner or later.

& bila there's no one, or it doesnt happened like what we'd expected, we become frustated.

sebab tu, all things rooted from self.

sebab tu, Allah  & islam stress on fardu muslim,

sebab tu, Allah & islam stress on dependent only towards Allah

once we utter "hasbiyallah ha wanikmal wakil"

& hanya kepada Dia, kita bergantung harap, we enjoy the inner peace:)

sebab tu jugak, the famous quote of ustaz hasrizal, "erti hidup bila memberi".

it's the food of the soul when we make others happy.

others view:
read in majalah jom:

 kadang2 even mat rempit pun dream for a better wife,

bajet mat rempit boleh buat macam transformer la kan, hari ni mat rempit esok terus boleh jadi imam masjid?360 degree punya transformation,

sebab his opinion, his wife will rescue him in shaping him to become 'imam masjid' the next minute kan,
dalam case ni, mmg dia harap 100% la others change him, tak sket pun dr dia.

nasihat untuk diri sebenarnya:

dont get caught up in a rescue fantasy,

even kadang2 benda tu tak 100% salah,( ade ape kejadian transformer tue?) :P

tapi ape2 pun everything rooted from ourself,diri sendiri.

change paradigm, u'll see world changing.

yelah, sebab kadang2 pun saya pun lost in the rescue fantasy jugak :P
every people do, i think.
Allah lah yang paling berhak untuk diletakkan sepenuh pengharapan^^

status:
alhamdullilah 1st test done. for the prayers, thank you:)
best larh buku stephen covey, banyak boleh relate ng islam.
"connect with inner self" + " the wisdom of the heart over the wisdom of the mind"
bukan ke mmg dalam islam dia tekankan hati kan kan?
& Allah selalu pesan suruh jaga hati sebab hati hakim kita di dunia,
ask your hati kecil:)
islam is wonderful^^


kalau tak faham, post ni main idea dia:
it's from us, first, actually.
& depends only to our dear Lord:)